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French Social Codes

Like Duolingo, but for French Social Codes. Tomo turns the whole topic into a game you play five minutes a day, until it actually sticks.

For the part of you with thirty open tabs that never became anything.

12 bite-size levelsAbout 5 minutes each

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French Social Codes
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12
Levels
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Sections
5
Min/day
What you'll learn

Key ideas in French Social Codes

  • Entering a French shop requires acknowledging the staff's humanity with a verbal greeting
  • French social norms treat 'Bonjour' as a mandatory 'unlock' for any service request
  • Silence upon entry is interpreted as treating the staff like an invisible service machine
  • Starting with a request like 'Je voudrais...' without a greeting is seen as a major faux pas
  • A second 'Bonjour' implies you have 'mal réveillé' or forgotten the first encounter
  • Applying 'Bonjour' as a mandatory social prerequisite before any transaction
  • Repeating the greeting suggests the previous interaction didn't register in your memory
  • French interactions require a formal closing sequence to maintain social harmony
  • Understanding the human-to-human recognition required when entering a shop
  • The 'Merci, au revoir' loop is as mandatory as the initial 'Bonjour' greeting
  • Closing the social loop of a French interaction correctly
  • French politeness favors a soft, direct greeting intended only for the recipient
  • Shouting a greeting across a room is viewed as a jarring 'American' style of behavior
  • Judging the appropriate volume and direction for a polite French greeting
  • Bread is placed directly on the tablecloth to the left of the plate
  • French hospitality dictates that a guest should never be rushed to leave
Why not just Google it

You've tried the other tabs

Wikipedia

Thirty open tabs. Four facts you actually kept.

YouTube

You watched. You nodded. By Sunday it was gone.

ChatGPT

One answer, then back to scrolling.

Online courses

Eight weeks. You meant to finish. You didn't.

Tomo gives French Social Codes the Duolingo treatment: levels, streaks, and quick quizzes that test what you just learned. That game loop is what the tabs above never had, so it's the one you actually finish.

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A real question from this course. Take your best guess.

The Magic Word of Entry

You are at a café counter. What is the necessary first step before you can successfully order your espresso?

Get it right to open this lesson and 11 more in the app.

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Where French Social Codes takes you

Move beyond basic phrases and master the unwritten rules of French etiquette to avoid common social friction and connect like a local.

  1. 1

    The Social Contract

    • The 'Bonjour' Prerequisite
    • Dining Without Faux Pas
  2. 2

    The Local Mindset

    • The Logic of 'Non'
    • The Tu vs. Vous Tightrope

2 sections · 4 units · 12 levels. Built to play, not to enroll.

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