The Art of Loving Women
Like Duolingo, but for The Art of Loving Women. Tomo turns the whole topic into a game you play five minutes a day, until it actually sticks.
For the part of you with thirty open tabs that never became anything.
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You've tried the other tabs
Thirty open tabs. Four facts you actually kept.
You watched. You nodded. By Sunday it was gone.
One answer, then back to scrolling.
Eight weeks. You meant to finish. You didn't.
Tomo turns The Art of Loving Women into a game you actually finish. Levels, streaks, and quick quizzes that make it stick. Five minutes a day.
Where The Art of Loving Women takes you
Go beyond basic respect to discover a deep, informed appreciation for the contributions, perspectives, and history of women. Master the art of being a true ally and advocate in every area of life.
- 1
Being a Better Ally Today
- Listening without interrupting
- How to spot and stop everyday bias
- Supporting women's ideas in meetings
- The power of active encouragement
- 2
Seeing the World Through Her Eyes
- Understanding the 'Mental Load'
- Safety and public spaces
- The double standards of success
- Navigating healthcare as a woman
- The impact of the glass ceiling
- Celebrating female friendships
- 3
Great Women You Should Know
- Leaders who changed history
- Scientists who were overlooked
- Artists who broke the mold
- 4
Communication and Connection
- Validating emotions without fixing them
- The language of inclusion
- Giving credit where it is due
- Constructive ways to disagree
- Building trust through consistency
- 5
The History of Appreciation
- Where the word 'Philogyny' comes from
- Famous defenders of women through time
- How the movement evolved
- Philogyny vs. Chivalry
- 6
Challenging the Status Quo
- Recognizing 'Benevolent Sexism'
- Breaking down the 'Boys Club'
- Raising the next generation of allies
- Advocating for policy changes
- The role of men in women's rights
- 7
The Science of Social Progress
- Why diverse teams perform better
- The psychology of empathy
- How gender equality helps everyone
- 8
Living Your Values
- Setting a standard for your peers
- Handling mistakes with grace
- Finding your unique way to contribute
- The lifelong journey of learning
- Celebrating progress while seeking more
8 sections · 35 units · 175 levels. Built to play, not to enroll.
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